Imagine waking up in a home that only holds the things you truly love and use. If you are preparing for a new season of life, right-sizing your home is the key to that freedom.
I’m Bonnie, your non-judgmental professional organizer, and I’m here to help you move from feeling frozen by making decisions about your stuff to feeling light and ready for what’s next. So, take a deep breath with me—because we are about to create some space for your future.
Over the last three years, I have worked with many people who are right-sizing their home. Often times, there is a sense of unease. People also wonder what they should take into the next season of life. They usually ask me two questions: How do you declutter a lifetime? and How do you know what to keep?
Shift Your Mindset to Right-sizing Your Home
The first step is a mindset shift. Stop asking, “What do I have to get rid of?” Instead, ask: “What is serving me well now, and what will serve me for the future?”
Those “just in case” items make a home feel heavy. We plan for scenarios that rarely happen. Right-sizing your home isn’t about shrinking your life. It is about expanding your freedom.
How to Begin: Start Small and Low-Stakes
In order to declutter a lifetime, you must start small. Choose a space that is “low stakes,” like the kitchen.
Think about your future lifestyle. Additionally, this is a great time to “pass the torch.” Give the turkey pan and the large crockpot to the next generation. If they are hosting the holidays now, let them house the gear. It is hard to let traditions go, but right-sizing your home makes room for new ones.
Moving to the Harder Areas: The Closet
Once you practice in the kitchen, move to the closet. Look at those jeans from 1994. We’ve all been there, thinking they might come back in style!
It is okay to let them go. Someone at a donation center is looking for that exact vintage look right now. When right-sizing your home, if an item doesn’t serve you today, let it serve someone else who truly needs it.
The “Shed” Check
The next step is to talk to your adult children. Are their Legos still in your shed? Are their old report cards in your files?
Remember, you kept those things out of love. Therefore, you can honor that love by passing them to the owner. Basically, put them in a bin with their name on it. Let them decide what to keep. Right-sizing your home means your space should reflect where you are going, not just where you have been.
Handling Sentimental Items While Right-sizing Your Home
What about the items you truly treasure? You have three great options:
- Keep and display: Put the things you love most out where you can see and enjoy them.
- Digital Memories: Take a photo of the item. Keep a folder on your phone to look back on.
- The Memory Bin: Put a few special items in a dedicated, high-quality bin.
The “Baby Box” Dilemma
Recently, someone asked a great question: “What about the truly precious stuff? The silver rattles, birth announcements, and even baby teeth?”
You don’t have to “palm these off” or throw them away. Therefore, pick the best of the best and create a curated Legacy Box. One special outfit is a treasure. Fifty outfits is a storage problem. Think about adding a small note telling the story of the item. This then turns “stuff” into history.
Create Breathing Room in Your Right Sized Home
Decluttering isn’t bad. It is about creating space—physically, mentally, and emotionally—to be with loved ones instead of managing “stuff.”
If you get stuck and “freeze” when looking at an item, I can help. I created a Free Decluttering Decisions Flowchart to give you instant clarity.
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Remember, right-sizing your home means you can keep what you want. But you are finally making space for what truly matters in your next season.
Bonnie Hintenach
Professional Organizer | Bin Your Space
